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Intimacy Is Not Always Sexual – Ways to Boost Your Self-Esteem

Often still, sex is mistaken for intimacy. Sex is merely one form of intimacy and getting physically close to someone does not mean intimacy at all levels.
By Anastasia Pinheiro 6 min read

How To Erect A Penis – A Penis Anatomy Explanation

What is a penis, how is it constructed, what are the different penises and who has one? You will find answers to these and other questions in this article.
By Kelvin Sparks 8 min read

Pussy Map

It is useful to understand the anatomy of the vulva to communicate and advocate for our needs. Here is everything you should know about the vulva that was not taught at school. A vulva 101, if you will.
By Naomi Gale 5 min read

In Bed With Friends: A Guide to Self-Pleasure

Masturbation is understood as the stimulation of one’s sexual organs, usually leading to orgasm. To me, self-pleasure can be a lot more.
By Cleo King 5 min read

How to Talk About Sex

Talking about sex isn’t always easy, whether you are in a committed relationship, entertaining different lovers or getting to know someone new. So how do we start the conversation? More broadly, how do we approach talking about our desires, kinks and boundaries to live a fulfilled and satisfying sex life?
By Cleo King 6 min read

What is Pleasure Mapping?

Do you know what sensations arouse you the most? We are rarely encouraged to explore what we truly enjoy. In order find out – consensually and with care – you can practice pleasure mapping. The Sex School hub shows us how it’s done.
By CHEEX 2 min read

How to Be a Boss in Role-play

In the world of kink, one of the most popular fantasies and interests out there is playing around with power dynamics! Power dynamics are often associated with BDSM, and role-play stands out as one of the most effective ways to express, play with, experiment and explore these dynamics.
By Emerson Karsh 7 min read

How to be Sexually Empowered?

One of my favourite sexuality coaches once mentioned, "Sexual empowerment is vast and complex—not a linear graph, not a one-way street, but an ever-unfolding prism."
By Eliza Lawrence 5 min read

Prostate Play

Did you know that searches for prostate massages online tripled between 2004 and 2017? Once considered niche, prostate play is gaining popularity, especially among heterosexual cisgender men.
By Kelvin Sparks 7 min read

Outdoor Sex – An Interview with the TravellingLovers

Nature can be an endless source of inspiration if it comes to Sex. Especially in summer, when the days get longer and the nights hotter, outdoor sex can provide variety and excitement. It also takes a bit of courage and risk to embark on an outdoor adventure, but it brings passion and a breath of fresh air into relationships or partnerships.
By Lilith Ga 8 min read

The Erotic Blueprint Quiz

Let's explore Jaiya Ma's "Erotic Blueprints," which have recently gained popularity. Discover the insights this test provides about yourself and others, and assess its relevance and helpfulness.
By Anna Dillinger 6 min read

The Science of Voice Attractiveness: What Makes a Voice Irresistible and Why

Do you ask people to send you a voice message before you go on a first date? Maybe you should. According to studies, beauty is not only in the eyes but also in the ears of the beholder. Let’s dive into the topic of voice attractiveness…
By Charis Uster 7 min read

How To: Edging

Edging is the practice of stopping stimulation right before you are about to orgasm. This practice has many great benefits. Find out more here.
By Alexis Smiley Smith 5 min read

A Vulva Steaming Guide

Vulva steaming, or vaginal steaming, is where you heal and connect with your pelvis by working with steam, breath, and herbs. This guide is a step-by-step guide to vulva steaming.
By Naomi Gale 6 min read

Add a Kink in your Dating Life – Five Classic Date Scenarios, Reimagined

Similar to the dictionary definition of the word kink; “a sharp twist or curve in something otherwise straight”, a sexual kink can be described as anything that falls outside mainstream sexual activities. But, then again, what is that?
By Ena Dahl 8 min read

Under the Queer Spell: A Conversation About Witchcraft, Queerness, & Sex

Witchcraft is most noticeable among Berlin’s queer, hip, intersectionally aware community. I couldn’t help but wonder: Is there a cross-over between witchcraft, queerness, and queer sex even?
By Felix Jung 7 min read

Oxytocin, the “Cuddle Hormone”

Know that warm, fuzzy feeling that comes after a hug or cuddle? That's oxytocin, often called the "cuddle hormone", working its magic!
By Helen Waeder 4 min read

Sexual Self-Esteem? What Is That?

Award-winning sexologist Chantelle Otten is passionate about normalising sexuality and offers 5 exclusive tips on how to feel more secure in your sexual self.
By Chantelle Otten 5 min read

Real Talk Equals Better Sex

Rico and Rebecca share their experiences about communicating sexual desires in their relationship and give you tips on how to talk to your partner(s) about your own.
By Rico & Rebecca 5 min read

Rewire Your Brain: How Audio Porn Can Help You Redefine Beauty & Reclaim Pleasure

Unrealistic beauty standards are a plague that is proven to negatively affect people’s sexual satisfaction and overall sexual wellness. When it comes to sexual entertainment, audio porn can provide a desperately needed element of escapism to the predominantly male-gazed visual deluge.
By Charis Uster 6 min read

Performance Anxiety

Overcoming, growing and rethinking sex and performance. Learn from sex workers and performers how you can prevent and overcome performance anxiety.
By Noir 9 min read

4 Mental Health Tips to Improve Your Sex Life

Mental health and sexual desire go hand in hand. With these tips, you will naturally increase your well-being and your libido!
By Maria Ambootia 4 min read

A New Dimension in Sex? Kinky parties

Sex worker Pascal Schafers takes us into the world of sex parties and unravels its intricacies: What do we have to consider? Where can I find kinky parties? What can I expect from them? And what should I put on or take off?
By Pascal Schaefers 6 min read

The ABC of Group Sex

Group sex can mean a lot of different things, and there are many important considerations to have in mind before engaging in it. We have put together a glossary of terms for you to understand the in’s and outs of group sex. Enjoy!
By Kali Sudhra 4 min read

First Time In A Swingers Club

The Performer Couple Nora and Theo, recently visited a Swingers Club for the very first time. In this steamy account, Nora guides you through the different rooms and introduces you to an array of sex toys, partners and kinks, all from her perspective. Prepare for things to get heated.
By Nora & Theo 9 min read

My First Threesome

Ever wanted to have a threesome? In honour of International Threesome Day, this anonymous author shares with us their impressions on their very first threesome experience.
By CHEEX 7 min read

Welcome to the Pleasure Academy

Welcome to sex education on a whole new level. With access to our live workshops, tutorials, podcast and online magazine, the CHEEX Pleasure Academy offers a safe space to get your sexual agency on. Learn from industry experts, coaches and journalists who deep dive into all things sex and intimacy.

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Sex education on a whole new level! Live workshops, tutorials, podcast and online magazine

Safe Space

CHEEX Pleasure Academy offers a safe space to get your sexual agency on

Experts

Learn from industry experts, coaches and journalists who deep dive into all things sex and intimacy

Pleasure Academy Masterclass

NEW MASTERCLASS

How to Have Anal Sex

As one of the most common search terms on porn sites, this masterclass is looking to destigmatize anal sex – for people
NEW MASTERCLASS

How to have better sex

This masterclass is the sex education you never had. From understanding yourself better to cultivating lasting pleasure, this course takes you on

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CHEEX Talks: Wissen statt Scham – Wie gehen wir mit Pornos um?

In dieser Folge sprechen wir mit Madita Oeming über die Entwicklung der Pornografie, den gesellschaftlichen Umgang und wie wir lernen können, Pornografie reflektiert und lustvoll zu betrachten, ohne die Schattenseiten aus den Augen zu verlieren.
By CHEEX 1 min read

How To Have Anal Sex for the First Time

Ah, the uncharted territory of anal sex – a topic often hyped up as well as frequently feared. We're with you, intrepid explorers! We felt the same when we started in the beginning. Today, The Oh Collective will take us on a journey of discovery, armed with stats, cautionary tales, and tips from us. So, grab your compass (and maybe some lube), because we're diving deep into the world of anal sex.
By The Oh Collective 7 min read

CHEEXY CHATS: A For Anal

We are Helen and Amenzee, good friends since meeting at a pool party 3 years ago. We decided to take our friendship to the next level with this podcast!
By Helen Waeder 2 min read

CHEEXY CHATS: To Cum Or Not To Cum

What do waterslides and sxt0ys have in common? How do we loosen up the 3-Acts-Movie-like scripts of our sxlifes and transform performance into shared experiences? How do we chill out a bit when it comes to 0rgasms and see them less as a task and more as a fun part of an experience?
By Helen Waeder 2 min read

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Blowjob: How To Let It Become A Mind BLOWing Experience

Navigating the art of giving blow jobs can often feel like delving into a mysterious realm, surrounded by unspoken questions that no one dares to ask. Will the experience be more enjoyable if I master deep-throating? Do I need to play with the balls? Are there any special moves I do not know about? What if I end up gagging?
By Cleo King 4 min read

A Handjob Guide

Wanna know how to make handjobs fun for everyone involved? Find out how!
By Kevin Junk 5 min read

How Do You Orgasm? A CHEEX Guide

Here’s what happens when you orgasm and what you can do to make it work.
By Bethany Burgoyne 6 min read

How To Eat Pussy

Pussy eating skills are more than fancy tongue moves - get skills in vulva pleasure techniques, partner communication and avoiding common eating out mistakes.
By Luna Matatas 6 min read

How To: The Rider (known as the “Cowgirl”)

The Cowgirl Position is due for a gender-neutral rebrand and is better described by the term The Rider. One of the three most common and popular sex positions, it places the receiver on top and in charge. Because it can be quite energy demanding, this guide includes multiple options to vary it and make it less strenuous for the riding top.
By Ena Dahl 5 min read

A Fingering Guide

“Fingering is a lost art” a viral tweet reads. Once considered juvenile, the precision a good fingering technique allows is nothing to be left in the past.
By Tara Michaela 4 min read

Asexual Intimacy: Partnered Aces Share Their Experiences with Non-Sexual Intimacy

The phrase "being intimate" is too often used synonymously with "having sex." Intimacy within romantic relationships is often reduced to being sexually active with your partner, as if that is the only way to be intimate with someone.Let’s discuss the experiences of those who are often left out of conversations about intimacy and expand our understanding of what makes a relationship – ‘romantic’ or not – an intimate one.
By Yasmin Benoit 6 min read

How To: Scissoring

Myth or reality? Probably the most often lesbian sex position depicted in porn, it is neither the only position for people with vulvas, nor inevitable. So who is it for? And how to do it?
By CHEEX 3 min read

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